Comments on: Making a Long Distance Relationship Work http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html Free relationship advice resources to Find True Love Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:35:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Beckie http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-26696 Beckie Tue, 08 Apr 2008 03:06:32 +0000 http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-26696 Hello, I am also involved in a long distance relationship. We only live about 2 1/2 hours away from each other but still it is long distance for both of us. We met on myyearbook and we have been together for 3 weeks now. We see each other every weekend and talk on the phone and on the internet every day. Because of our lives we are unable to move in together. He is part owner of a business In Phoenix and I have 2 kids in school here in Tucson. We have been talking with each other for almost 2 months. I know most of you that read this will say that we are rushing into things too fast but when you truly love someone and know in your heart that this is the one and the only one for me, there is no such thing as rushing into things. We are so much alike in so many ways. It feels like two puzzle pieces that were ment to fit together. We are talking marriage and he wants to adopt my kids. He's such a loving man.We are both very happy even though we are over 100 miles away from each other. We will be moving in together in June 2008. I have a message for the other person that left a comment. If this guy your seeing doesn't want you to hang out with your friends then he's asking you to not be yourself. It sounds to me like he wants to control you. And if your having to lie to him because of this, this is not a healthy relationship. He should love you for who you are and not what he wants you to be. If I were you I would be careful. I've been in a similar relationship and I ended it because he wouldn't allow me to do anything unless he was by my side. If you would like to contact me you can find me at rp76wr71@yahoo.com signed, True Love In Tucson, Arizona Hello,

I am also involved in a long distance relationship. We only live about 2 1/2 hours away from each other but still it is long distance for both of us. We met on myyearbook and we have been together for 3 weeks now. We see each other every weekend and talk on the phone and on the internet every day. Because of our lives we are unable to move in together. He is part owner of a business In Phoenix and I have 2 kids in school here in Tucson.

We have been talking with each other for almost 2 months. I know most of you that read this will say that we are rushing into things too fast but when you truly love someone and know in your heart that this is the one and the only one for me, there is no such thing as rushing into things. We are so much alike in so many ways. It feels like two puzzle pieces that were ment to fit together. We are talking marriage and he wants to adopt my kids. He’s such a loving man.We are both very happy even though we are over 100 miles away from each other. We will be moving in together in June 2008.

I have a message for the other person that left a comment.

If this guy your seeing doesn’t want you to hang out with your friends then he’s asking you to not be yourself. It sounds to me like he wants to control you. And if your having to lie to him because of this, this is not a healthy relationship. He should love you for who you are and not what he wants you to be. If I were you I would be careful. I’ve been in a similar relationship and I ended it because he wouldn’t allow me to do anything unless he was by my side. If you would like to contact me you can find me at rp76wr71@yahoo.com

signed,
True Love In Tucson, Arizona

]]> By: filipina pen pal http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-26635 filipina pen pal Thu, 28 Feb 2008 02:24:49 +0000 http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-26635 oh.. long distance relationship??? I've been there.. really hard.. constant communication is really important!! oh.. long distance relationship??? I’ve been there.. really hard.. constant communication is really important!!

]]> By: ice_cerise http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-25170 ice_cerise Fri, 29 Jun 2007 19:48:44 +0000 http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-25170 hi! i am also involve in a long distance relationship. my boyfriend and i are together for two years time. i know he loves me much, i can feel it.he's been my best friend, family and lover at the same time. we see each other quarter in a year. everytime i am in trouble, he never leaves me (though not physically). everyday he always calls me, check if i'm doing good. but my problem is that he's so strict. i can go out with my friends most especially if we're with our boy pals. i cant go out if it's nothing important. to make it short, he doesnt want me to unwind unless i'm with him. and that forces me to lie to him everytime i go out. as much as i want to be true to him, but i realize i also need to unwind most specially that my work is too tiring. i hope he can forgive for the lies i have. but anyway, we're planning to settle down three years from now. i hope we can make it. thanks! hi! i am also involve in a long distance relationship. my boyfriend and i are together for two years time. i know he loves me much, i can feel it.he’s been my best friend, family and lover at the same time. we see each other quarter in a year. everytime i am in trouble, he never leaves me (though not physically). everyday he always calls me, check if i’m doing good. but my problem is that he’s so strict. i can go out with my friends most especially if we’re with our boy pals. i cant go out if it’s nothing important. to make it short, he doesnt want me to unwind unless i’m with him. and that forces me to lie to him everytime i go out. as much as i want to be true to him, but i realize i also need to unwind most specially that my work is too tiring. i hope he can forgive for the lies i have. but anyway, we’re planning to settle down three years from now. i hope we can make it.

thanks!

]]> By: Anthony http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-22905 Anthony Thu, 29 Mar 2007 16:25:46 +0000 http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-22905 PLEASE HELP ILL DO ANY THING I have a True Love i fell in love with in high school we were so in love we had to brake up for some time about 4 years we kinda keeped touch since then but resintly we wanted to try it again now she lives 500km away so i went one weekend to see her it was so sweet she even told me agian she loved me i told her i wanna be her husband and her futur i said to her it dont matter how we are together i would move there or she could move here ich would be a bettr choice for her and me but you know how it is anyway ...;.. as i went home that monday now she says she needs time to think about the hole thing she hasnt ruled t out but i kinda know she will she wont come on msn and wont return my txt msg now i know she loves me ...... but im sure if i give her time ill get the curb in the end ..I WANNA MARRIE THIS GIRL NOW cuz i know shes my true love how do i do this how do i get her to understand .... cuz i know if i dont win ill lose her for ever ..now since we broke up the first time iv been waiting sadly for years to get back with her now i am and im so close to losing her agin so please help anyone ill do anything :( PLEASE HELP ILL DO ANY THING
I have a True Love i fell in love with in high school we were so in love we had to brake up for some time about 4 years we kinda keeped touch since then but resintly we wanted to try it again now she lives 500km away so i went one weekend to see her it was so sweet she even told me agian she loved me i told her i wanna be her husband and her futur i said to her it dont matter how we are together i would move there or she could move here ich would be a bettr choice for her and me but you know how it is anyway …;.. as i went home that monday now she says she needs time to think about the hole thing she hasnt ruled t out but i kinda know she will she wont come on msn and wont return my txt msg now i know she loves me …… but im sure if i give her time ill get the curb in the end ..I WANNA MARRIE THIS GIRL NOW cuz i know shes my true love how do i do this how do i get her to understand …. cuz i know if i dont win ill lose her for ever ..now since we broke up the first time iv been waiting sadly for years to get back with her now i am and im so close to losing her agin so please help anyone ill do anything :(

]]> By: mfundo http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-21483 mfundo Thu, 15 Mar 2007 17:11:51 +0000 http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-21483 I'm going out with some girl,my friend hoocked me up with her.she lives like 250 kilometres from me i don't know how she looks like but i'm sure my friend wouldn't let me down.I seriously love this girl apart from that i don't know her,her voice drives me crazy in a good way. I’m going out with some girl,my friend hoocked me up with her.she lives like 250 kilometres from me i don’t know how she looks like but i’m sure my friend wouldn’t let me down.I seriously love this girl apart from that i don’t know her,her voice drives me crazy in a good way.

]]> By: aleli http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-15094 aleli Mon, 20 Nov 2006 01:44:09 +0000 http://www.love-smart.com/making-a-long-distance-relationship-work.html#comment-15094 bakit ganon???? bakit parang nawawlan na ko ng tiwala sa boyfriend ko?? kahit isipin koh na faith full naman sya... parati na ko nagdududa sa kanya lalo na pag nagttxt kami tapos hindi pa kami masyado nakakpag kwentuhan bigla na lang nya sasabihin na sandali lang daw may gagawin lang daw sya!!!!! nakakainis parati na lang ganon nagmumukha na kong tanga eh!!!! tnanks!!!! bakit ganon????
bakit parang nawawlan na ko ng tiwala sa boyfriend ko??
kahit isipin koh na faith full naman sya…
parati na ko nagdududa sa kanya lalo na pag nagttxt kami tapos hindi pa kami masyado nakakpag kwentuhan bigla na lang nya sasabihin na sandali lang daw may gagawin lang daw sya!!!!!
nakakainis parati na lang ganon nagmumukha na kong tanga eh!!!!

tnanks!!!!

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